Hey beautiful Shaktis

A pleasure to be with some of you again this weekend and to meet some of you for the first time…

I have been thinking of you all lots since the workshop and wanted to say……Continue to celebrate your selves as women…..continue to explore with an attitude of curiosity…..have a date with yourself, indulge and spoil yourself, be your own beloved first……and self pleasure!

We change every day and if we approach our self pleasuring as if for the first time, each experience will never be the same. As well as for great pleasure, self pleasure is such a great teacher as to where we limit our pleasure, what our pleasures are and to truly listen to our bodies and our yonis…

And, there is so much healing in pleasure…..our pleasure is like our own personal and natural medicine cabinet….if you’re tired, have back ache, period pains, headaches, can’t sleep etc….self pleasure…it works!

At the world sexology conference I had the great pleasure of a private dinner with some of the international pioneers of women’s sexuality. The conference showed me how little is known about women’s pleasure and how the dominant paradigm is still based on men’s pleasure. Two of these pioneering women were asked about the next steps in this field with women’s pleasure – and they both said “listen to women’s voices”.

You are all pioneers of discovering women’s pleasure in doing this work. Listen to your bodies and your yoni’s – there is so much knowledge and wisdom and of course pleasure – and women’s pleasure is infinite!

Sarah